OK, I'll throw out the first grenade Vinnie: (This is intended to all)
1) Wheels are a matter of personal taste and budget. My recommendation is to look at other member's rides. Get an idea as to what catches YOUR eye. To heck with what other people like. When you see a few sets you like, PM the owner and ask, "Hey, what make and model are your wheels? What's you opinion of them and where would you recommend buying? If you're bold, ask what they spent." You will net more information this way and less confusion for you.
2) Asking the general forum for mod suggestions: Uhh, make up your mind! Intake, exhaust, drop, wheels, audio, lights, etc... . Floundering about doing random mods will detract from your car. There's a good order to things.
3) Start small and descrete. Just do the mod, then post up afterwards. Example, get your suspension lowered. Don't ask the peanut gallery, just do it. Then show pics afterwards. You know what, suddenly your stock wheels don't look so bad! ALWAYS (stop and read that again...) ALWAYS lower before you change wheels and tires. It sucks to suddenly find out that offset that cleared before doesn't afterwards. Besides, cool 19" wheels look dumb with the Toyota 4x4 posture.
4) Always search and research before posting up. Credability is everything online. Don't be a newbie by asking before searching. Surprise us with a question that hasen't been asked before. Wow us with information or tutorials that is new.
5) Limit critical comments. Always find something positive to say. This means alot to the car owners. It's their pride and joy, even in stock form so we must respect it. Again, this is directed to everyone. Comments like " Very nice, now drop dat shyte might not be the best way to communicate.
OK, I'm done lecturing for now. You all can go back to pretending to be at work or studying.
